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A Modern Family: Bringing Generations Together for Dinner
Posted By Laura Hahn On November 20, 2012 @ 10:05 am In Caregiving,Home & Family,Volunteering | Comments Disabled
In the three years I’ve known Arthur , we’ve never once sat at his dinner table — until last Thursday.
We’ve eaten together plenty, don’t you worry. Food is very much a part of our visits . On my walks from work to his apartment, I usually pick up something for us to share — Vietnamese summer rolls, maybe, or cheese and a baguette. If the weather permits, we go to the farmer’s market nearby or to the food trucks lined up down the block. Arthur loves “everything” and so do I. (Except cheesecake. Sorry, Arthur!)
But for as many times as we’ve enjoyed food together, we’ve always eaten somewhere other than the dining room, I realized Thursday, a week before Thanksgiving , as timing would have it. Two friends of mine were coming over for pizza at his place, so eating from a TV tray in the living room, per his routine, was out of the question. I cleared a space at his table, and wheeled him over.
The dinner was a test-run of a program my DOROT Young Professionals  group is piloting this year. DOROT’s mission is to enhance the lives of the elderly, primarily those who are homebound. The idea of our program is to bring together seniors and people in their 20s and 30s for small, casual dinner parties. Meals are on us, thanks to the funds we’ve raised, and they take place in the senior’s home. The hope is to make it easy to get together and enjoy one another’s company. It’s a party for everyone with the goal of reminding older adults that we care about them and they’re not alone . It’s also a source of healing, honoring the grandparents we can no longer visit. All three of us at Thursday’s dinner had lost our grandfathers  recently.
There’s something special about eating around the dining room table — the act of coming together, of appreciating the ideas of home and tradition. It’s a ritual families should believe in and practice, researchers say . My DOROT friends and I say let’s remember our seniors, too — this Thursday on Thanksgiving, of course, but also next Thursday, and the Thursday after that.
Want to see more photos from our dinner? Find them on my blog, Arthur & Bernie . And if you or someone you know would like to get involved with DOROT Young Professionals, tweet me @arthurandbernie .
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URLs in this post:
 Arthur: http://blog.aarp.org/2012/07/12/caring-together-an-intergenerational-approach/
 Image: http://blog.aarp.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/StoryCorpsArthur2-cropped.jpg
 Thanksgiving: http://blog.aarp.org/2012/11/07/5-travel-tips-for-thanksgiving-travelers/
 Image: http://blog.aarp.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/Splits.jpg
 DOROT Young Professionals: http://www.dorotusa.org/site/PageServer?pagename=vol_young_professionals
 not alone: http://www.aarp.org/aarp-foundation/our-work/isolation/info-2012/7-facts-about-social-isolation.html?sf5242456=1
 our grandfathers: http://blog.aarp.org/2012/10/17/grandpas-life-lessons-to-granddaughter/
 Superstorm Sandy: http://blog.aarp.org/?s=Sandy&x=0&y=0
 Call Me Maybe: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWNaR-rxAic
 AARP’s version: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mk6nMJAO1Uo
 researchers say: http://healthland.time.com/2012/04/24/why-families-who-eat-together-are-healthier/
 Arthur & Bernie: http://arthurandbernie.com/post/36085678794/guess-whos-coming-to-dinner
 @arthurandbernie: http://twitter.com/arthurandbernie
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