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Paula Deen’s Teachable Moment: Can We Change Our Attitudes?
Posted By Steve Mencher On June 28, 2013 @ 4:13 pm In Bulletin Today,Relationships | Comments Disabled
To nutritionists, the list of Paula Deen’s sins may still be topped by overuse of mayonnaise and a predilection for frying . But the celebrity chef’s empire is in free fall because of allegations that she used hurtful, racist language .
Does Dean, 66, need to adjust some of her core beliefs, attitudes and behaviors? Can she, or for that matter, can any of us? And if so, how?
Discussion: Is Paula Deen a Racist? Is Dr. Laura? 
There’s good news and bad news about racial prejudice, says Princeton professor Susan Fiske, an expert on bias and change.
The bad news? If a lifetime of prejudice has left you susceptible to “foot-in-mouth” disease, it’s going to get worse with age. “Many people may be unable to inhibit the tendency to blurt things out  even when they know the rules of social behavior and want to behave appropriately,” says Fiske’s colleague, Bill von Hippel. As you age, your true feelings have a way of slipping out at the worst times.
All the more reason that someone like Deen may need real change before other similar sentiments put an end to her career altogether.
The good news? Fiske cites research that people have an easier time changing their attitudes and beliefs when they’re older  than during middle age. Age 50 appears to be the low point, but after that, change grows ever more possible with age. That’s good news for Deen if she admits to the need for some attitude adjustment.
Related: AARP Voices of Civil Rights 
But where to start.
Another specialist in this subject, Linda Tropp, had a thesis: racist behavior can grow out of ignorance and fear. An experiment led by Tropp, a professor of psychology at the University of Massachusetts Amherst, concluded that white participants who talked about racially charged issues with African Americans were consistently more comfortable if they spent more time listening rather than talking about, and justifying, themselves and their own behavior.
Not surprising, perhaps, but it points to significant opportunities for change and growth.
Tropp’s prescription? Deen should attend a “study circle” or local discussion group where people of different backgrounds interact openly and honestly, and spend time listening to and understanding the varied lives of others. That alone would be a great first step toward change.
Here are other tips from Tropp and Fiske:
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 predilection for frying: http://www.foodnetwork.com/recipes/paula-deen/paulas-fried-butter-balls-recipe/index.html
 she used hurtful, racist language: http://tpmdc.talkingpointsmemo.com/2013/06/paula-deen-racial.php
 Is Paula Deen a Racist? Is Dr. Laura?: http://www.aarp.org/online-community/groups/index.action?plckGroupId=Group1472&plckGroupPage=forum#plckforumpage=ForumDiscussion&plckdiscussionid=Cat%3AprivateForum%3A5606be00-fd7c-454b-abb5-f7866b3f5f55%40D|9%3B9|CommGroupGroup1472|Discussion%3Af0b52cd2-4ae8-4059-9676-4caf7f64a639&plckforumpostonpage=1&plckpostid@intcmp=AE-IL-CONT-COMM
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 the tendency to blurt things out: http://www.psychologicalscience.org/media/releases/2005/pr050712.cfm
 changing their attitudes and beliefs when they’re older: http://www.stanford.edu/dept/communication/faculty/krosnick/docs/1998/1998%20Development%20of%20Attitude%20Strength%20Over%20the%20Life%20Cycle.pdf
 AARP Voices of Civil Rights: http://www.aarp.org/politics-society/history/voices-of-civil-rights.html?intcmp=AE-BLIL-DOTORG
 How to Make New Friends After a Move: http://www.aarp.org/home-family/friends-family/info-03-2013/how-to-make-new-friends.html?intcmp=AE-ENDART1-BL-REL
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