Dr. Pepper Schwartz

Biography: I'm AARP's sex and relationship expert, where I strive to improve the lives of aging boomers and the age-50 audience by enhancing their relationships and offering counsel on everything from sex and health issues to communication and dating in midlife and beyond.

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Dating Again: The Re-Entry Checklist

Posted on 09/22/2012 by Dr. Pepper Schwartz | Sex & Relationships | Comments

RelationshipsI had the pleasure of talking to AARP members about being single and dating after 50 at their annual member event Life@50+ in New Orleans. Here are some of the key points from our discussion: When you want to date again, first consider the non-online possibilities: friends of friends, single events, hobby groups, places of worship, etc. Go to busy places to find a potential mate, such as airports, concerts, political groups, volunteering opportunities. Don’t be afraid to chat up people! …

Online Dating Doldrums? Find Yourself a Wingwoman

Posted on 08/1/2012 by Dr. Pepper Schwartz | Sex & Relationships | Comments

Home & Family | RelationshipsQ: Dating older men can be disillusioning. Why are men on singles websites are disingenuous? The ones I’ve met seem to be so needy: They talk about past, failed relationships; some talk about weekend plans like playing golf (both days); some I’ve learned later are still married; and don’t forget about the one that has an old girlfriend living with him because she is indigent and he’s grown fond of her grandchildren. Don’t even ask me about the one that …

I Say Three’s Company … But My Hubby Doesn’t

Posted on 07/27/2012 by Dr. Pepper Schwartz | Sex & Relationships | Comments

Home & Family | Relationships | Your LifeQ: Is it normal for your husband to want a threesome with another woman? We’ve been married for three years and everything has been great. Should I be worried? Is this normal and a good thing or is he getting bored with me? He says it won’t get him turned on unless I was involved. Can anything good this? – SB Dr. Schwartz: Yeah, for him but not for the marriage. And it doesn’t sound like it will be good …

No Joys of Sex With My New Knee

Posted on 07/25/2012 by Dr. Pepper Schwartz | Sex & Relationships | Comments

Home & Family | RelationshipsQ: I had total knee replacement surgery five weeks ago. As of now, I won’t be able to kneel above my husband, as I use to, when we have sex. Is there a book or pamphlet out there that can show us different positions to try during sex? – PR Dr. Schwartz: Yes, there are several. The Joy of Sex shows all kinds of positions — the first edition has drawings while the second edition shows photos. Or Anne Hooper …

What Do I Do With My Guy & His Wandering Eye?

Posted on 07/23/2012 by Dr. Pepper Schwartz | Sex & Relationships | Comments

Home & Family | RelationshipsQ: What should I do when my husband looks and stares at other women? Should I leave him, confront him or just not say anything? It makes me angry and uncomfortable, not to mention makes me feel like I’m not what he wants anymore. What do I do? – TR Dr. Schwartz: Well, first talk to him, not right when it happens, but when you are both in a good mood, relaxed and ready to have an intimate conversation. Tell …

What Movies Do You Watch to Get You In The Mood?

Posted on 07/19/2012 by Dr. Pepper Schwartz | Sex & Relationships | Comments

Entertainment | Home & Family | RelationshipsQ: Do you have any suggestions for steamy movies—not porn, but exciting. I recently saw Room in Rome and found it a very steamy, beautiful love story. I plan to see it again with my partner. Our love story is wonderful: Both of us are over 70, both widowed after 40 years and 50 years of very happy marriages. We found each other and found a new love which seems as wonderful and rewarding as our first ones. We want …