Attitude

Curb Your Enthusiasm: Pessimists May Be Healthier

Posted on 03/4/2013 by | Personal Health and Well-being | Comments

Bulletin Today | Personal HealthBad news for the relentlessly cheery Pollyannas among us: Grumpy old men (and women) may live longer. Or so says a new German study that suggests that pessimists live longer, healthier lives than those who are overly optimistic. The new research, published online this month in the journal Psychology and Aging, finds that people who have low expectations for their future satisfaction actually have less disability and death than do those who overestimate their future happiness. In other words, Eeyore …

A Caregiver ‘Can Do’ Attitude

Posted on 04/10/2012 by | Aging, Home & Family Expert | Comments

CaregivingDressed in his pajamas and clean white T-shirt, he walks into the room, intensely focused and looking around for something. I’m lying on the sofa-bed in his study/guest room, reading a book before going to sleep. I’m not sure if he sees me, his vision so compromised by Glaucoma, or if he is just so focused on the object he is in search of that he doesn’t zero in on me. “What are you looking for, Daddy?” I ask. A …