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Mom, Pop & the CARE Act

Posted on 04/7/2014 by | AARP Blog Author | Comments

PoliticsAs I recently told Ron Fournier of the National Journal, the memories of Mom and Pop are part of what drive me in my work to support family caregivers as they help their loved ones live independently at home. Like most Americans, Mom and Pop wanted to stay at home — and not go into a nursing home or other facility. In their 80s they become first-time homeowners of a one-story house, and I continued in my role as their …

Family Caregivers, CARE Act Gain Support

Posted on 03/24/2014 by | AARP Blog Author | Comments

PoliticsAloha! After a busy few weeks of travel to fight for family caregivers — and enjoying some warm Hawaii sunshine in between meetings — I’m back in chilly D.C. with news to report. First, I had the pleasure of spending time with AARP Hawaii as it works to pass the Caregiver Advise, Record, Enable (CARE) Act and support the 247,000 family caregivers in Hawaii — as well as the seniors these caregivers help to live independently, at home. Throughout the week, we …

Fighting for Family Caregivers

Posted on 02/24/2014 by | AARP Blog Author | Comments

PoliticsMike is a 55-year-old Mississippian and a family caregiver for his lifelong friend Joe, who suffered a stroke.  Mike has found more emotional strength than he knew he had when the reality hit that caring for Joe is a 24-hour-a-day job. Nancy went from daughter to family caregiver, and after weeks of sleeping in her father’s hospital room, stress-filled months and sleepless nights, she learned to rely on her siblings, make a plan and step back into her life. Amy …

When the Caregiver Doesn’t Take Care of Herself

Posted on 08/30/2012 by | Aging, Home & Family Expert | Comments

CaregivingIt’s a subtle thing. It happens bit by bit…it creeps up and then one time too many of lifting the wheelchair into the trunk and—BAM! –it smacks me flat, usually at the most inopportune time.That’s what happened to me last week when my back screamed, “Stop!”  I have a history of back problems, but my back hasn’t flared up this badly in about 10 years. The timing couldn’t be worse.  We are packing up my parents’ senior living apartment and …