After 30 Years of Marriage, Now He Wants Porn?

Q: My husband of 30 years suddenly insisted on introducing pornography into our marriage. (He also wanted us to be “swingers.” I said no.) I tried instructional sex videos, but stopped when they turned into mere porn. This is my second marriage, and I had other partners between marriages. I like oral sex and multiple positions, but my husband now calls me a prude, rigid, superstitious Christian zealot for refusing to watch these sex videos. At his insistence, we now …