Role Reversal in a Marriage

Q: In some marriages, the male and female roles are reversed. Is this normal, or is this a problem? I would like to read something on this; do you know of a website? A: The best thing about being a man or a woman in an intimate relationship these days is that there are no rules. Rather, people can decide on whatever division of labor helps them reach their mutual goals the fastest. So if the husband of an ambitious, …

In My Dreams, My Wife Is the Only One Sleeping — Around!

Q: About 18 months ago I was put on AndroGel for low testosterone. It has worked well — my energy level is up, and so is my libido — but there’s a problem: I keep dreaming my wife is having sex with other men. The sex is quite graphic. It causes me to wake up about 2 a.m. with a very good erection, and leaves me unable to get back to sleep. The dreams stay on my mind throughout the …