Why I Feel Freedom and Fearlessness After Age 50

One of the joys of passing age 50 is growing less self-conscious about what people think of me. By now, I know I can usually trust my instincts, and even when I falter, the judgments of others don’t sting like they used to. There are far worse things in life than falling short in someone else’s eyes. I’ve found much greater value in confronting what I think of me. This has been liberating. Aging gives us personal license — the …

Now Is the Perfect Time to Think About What’s Next in Your Life

Amid all the shimmer and shine of the new year, many of us find ourselves spending longer than usual on inner reflection — wondering how we might pursue a passion or thinking hard about whether our own skin is still a good fit. I always think that the more time I spend on this end-of-the-year inventory, the bigger the opportunity I have to make a meaningful adjustment. That’s the signal that this is a good time to look deeper and …

How to Get Rid of an Insect “Wasband”

This is my first summer in hot and sunny Florida. I’d like to send the sun packing because I’m not leaving. The only opportunity to exercise without melting into a puddle of sweat is a walk at dawn. No problem; I love dawn. As the sun comes up one morning, I slip outside and head off on foot. Passing a beautiful flowering bush that looks like a lilac, I pause to smell the blooms, just in case they smell like …

AARP Supports and Honors Veterans and Their Families

Revised 11/11/2016 AARP serves Americans as we age, and that certainly includes our nation’s veterans and their families. If you or someone in your family is a veteran, like I am, I urge you to read this closely. For the past several years, veterans who work or volunteer with AARP have been noticing that the programs and advocacy that AARP so successfully provides in communities across the country has a special relevance to veterans and their families. In one example, …

Game On! Challenge Yourself With Something New and Exciting

Recently, I went to the ballpark for fun with my kids, Ayanna and Andrew. The Nationals and the Phillies were playing! Then I was off to Yale University, my alma mater of long ago, to speak to four business school classes. Whenever I visit, I have the same insecurities as way back when. But I’ve found my voice and my self-confidence in the years since. As I said on Facebook, it was game on. The reality is that my life …

Leslie Nettleford’s Life Reimagined

By Jessica Winn Why one woman’s story on following her dream should inspire you to do the same Have you ever had an idea that kept you up all night, or a desire to do something extraordinary? Perhaps you even have a special talent that you’ve always wanted to pursue more fully? We are all familiar with those urges toward purpose and passion; it’s human nature to aspire for something more. Unfortunately, we are also all familiar with the excuses …