Who Wears the Panties in This House?

Q: I am a 50-year-old male. I shave my legs for various reasons, and my wife is OK with it. (She’s even told me how sexy it is in bed.) I also wear thong-style and men’s nylon underwear. Now I’d like to start wearing satin women’s underwear. How should I bring this up to my wife? It seems she’s already somewhat supportive. A: Quite a few men derive pleasure from wearing women’s clothes, especially bras and panties. Before you broach …

Of Cuddling, Companionship and Coitus

Q: Is there such a thing as having a girl-girl relationship with just cuddling and kissing and no oral sex or titillation tactics? I’m not into sex — never really have been — just companionship. (I’m 61, and have been hetero ’til now.) A: If you’ve never felt this way before, the urge to get physically closer to another woman must be an emotionally complex experience for you. Is sexual orientation fixed early in our development? That’s what some researchers …

Can You Be Blocked From Jury Duty if You’re Gay?

Imagine that you’re called for jury duty. Maybe you’re excited – you’ve always wanted to see the justice system from inside. Maybe you’re bummed out – you’ve already been through this routine more times than you can remember. Whatever you feel, you’re likely to trust in a system that is supposed to be fair to all – including prospective jurors. And because you’re over 50 years old, you’re more likely to be selected for a jury than others in the …