Why Loneliness Is Bad for Your Brain and Body

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Friendships have a lot going for them. A good pal is there when you need to blow off steam or share a secret. The right friend will even tell you when spinach is stuck in your teeth or that mustard yellow isn’t your best color.

But life happens, and schedules get busy. All too often your pals get pushed to the back burner.

Researchers at Brigham Young University have found that going too long without a heart-to-heart with a loved one — or a laugh fest with a friend — may shorten your lifespan.

To learn more, check out this article on Staying Sharp: 5 Smart Ways to Make and Keep New Friends

After looking at data from 70 studies involving more than 3 million people, the scientists found that loneliness and social isolation increase the risk of premature death by 30 percent. The two factors affect longevity as much as obesity does — and they’re just as dangerous as smoking 15 cigarettes a day, the researchers found.

The findings hold true for those who prefer their solo time, as well as for those who feel alone in large crowds.

The upside to this news, however, is that making time for meaningful relationships may help protect your immune system, reduce your stress levels and decrease the risk of developing dementia.

For more about why loneliness is detrimental for your brain and body, read Loneliness Is a Threat to Longevity, Even in People Who Like to Be Alone

This content is provided for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide any expert, professional or specialty advice or recommendations. Readers are urged to consult with their medical providers for all questions.

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