Love might be good for the heart, but it turns out that sex is good for the brain, especially as we age. And, in fact, a healthy sex life seems to benefit men’s and women’s brain’s differently, a new study finds.
Q: You omitted an entire group of people in your article for AARP The Magazine on “Sex After 50.” There are those of us who are wa-a-ay over 50 and still enjoy sex, even though it’s solo.
Couples who have been in relationships for a long time often find their sex lives screeching to a halt as they get older. What's worse, they often think it's their fault, when in fact, it could very well be because of something his or her partner is going through. Sure. menopause can sometimes make sex uncomfortable, and cause our libido to drop off. But just as often, a man's sex drive might slow down because of medications he's on.
Q: My wife seems to want intercourse only but I have a problem with premature ejaculation (PE). In my previous marriage, I satisfied my ex-wife with oral sex and then we'd have short intercourse. My current wife won't let me perform oral sex, but I believe it's because she prefers intercourse. Part of my problem is that her ex was long-lasting and I can't get it out of my head. She won't go to counseling. We did, and it was working, but she stopped. I have the medications for ED (erectile dysfunction) injections, but I don't see how that will stop my PE. I am so depressed about this. I want sex all the time but until I can last longer, she just lies there, so I stop trying. Help!
Q: My husband and I both enjoy sex, but I suffer from severe depression and anxiety and have been on all kinds of medication for 10-plus years. I cannot do without them. I also cannot achieve orgasm. I've been to so many doctors, and they all say the same thing: It's my meds. My question is: Do I have to pick between being happy on my meds, or having an orgasm? Lately it's getting hard to pick. I really need to reach orgasm. Is there anything I can do?
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