An emotionally moving essay in the Washington Post last week about the loneliness and frustrations of assisted living has sparked an equally emotional outpouring from readers.
More than 530 readers commented online and many sent letters after 62-year-old Martin Bayne wrote about his experience with impersonal administrators, underpaid but hardworking staff, lonely residents, and rooms that, ironically, aren't set up for people in wheelchairs.
Bayne acknowledged that, outwardly, his facility is impressive -- clean, attractive, with good quality food and manicured lawns. He added:
Most residents show a calm, even peaceful veneer. But beneath the surface, all of us are susceptible to the ambient despair that is a permanent component of life in assisted living.
Bayne, the publisher of The Feathered Flounder, a literary journal showcasing the work of older adults, has been in assisted living for eight years because of early onset Parkinson's.
He writes that his experiences aren't unique -- "(they) will resonate with anyone living in an assisted living facility and anyone visiting family and friends there."
Although assisted living can improve life circumstances for many people and their families, he noted, there's also an emotional toll from being surrounded by many who are in mental or physical decline, as well as by frequent death.
Many readers agreed, judging by the comments, although others wrote just as passionately that family decisions about assisted living are rarely easy or simple, and that some facilities do a better job than others of creating a more home-like environment.
One reader, whose 91-year-old father had been in assisted care, wrote in a letter to the Post: "There's a certain loneliness to the existence, to the regimentation...to the fragility of residents' existence that each resident feels. I don't know what the answers are to the situation, but I agree that changes can and should be made."
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