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Q: I'm 63 years old and have been divorced for 19 years. I have met several women over the years, some were very special relationships but never lasted. My question is: How young is too young for a man in a new relationship? I have met a sweet and devoted young lady, and we share many values and…
It was a warm, humid night on Koh Samui, an island in one of the many seas that make up Thailand. I was there doing research for a book on the world's most romantic places (Shameless plug alert: Coming soon, "Perfect Places for Passion at Any Age," for Frommers in collaboration with AARP.) We were…
Q: My fiancé and I are planning to marry after dating for five years. We are both 50. I was previously married for 22 years, but he has never been married. In fact he has never left the childhood home he shares with his sister. He is also borderline OCD, but we have managed to build a wond erful…
Q: My husband, who is from a country in Africa, travels there often for business. He has permanent United States resident status. But when he was suppose to come home for Christmas last year he sent an e-mail stating that while he appreciated the time we have spent together, four and a half years…
Q: I suffer from erectile dysfunction. Why do I sometimes wake up in the middle of the night and have a stronger erection? -- CG
Q: For the past four years, I have been a member of 20 singles websites looking for love, dates, long-term relationships, etc., with no luck. I take all of the quizzes, submit photos and answer questions honestly, but still, nothing. No one will tell me why I am failing at this. Can you help? -CM
Q: I'm 72 and met a man online, who lives many hours from me. We have been Skyping for three weeks and have had many good long talks. At the present time he's at his daughter's home babysitting for school vacation. He would like to come and visit in a few weeks, and I'm excited for this because I…
Q: How does one stop verbal abuse and harsh sarcasm from a mate of 46 years so the tween grandchild isn't exposed to an unloving grandparent environment? It's hard because I rely 100 percent on my husband for financial support. Are there assistance programs for those who are not poverty level but…
Q: I've been living with my boyfriend for nearly seven years. When we moved into together he was married but asked me to marry him-he said he was getting a divorce as soon as possible ... that didn't happen. He said his young daughter would not make it through a divorce and wanted to wait until she…
When I was a sweet young thing (well, maybe not so sweet) my parents encouraged me to go to college so that I could always have a "fall-back position." They saw it as insurance for survival but they were worried: Would a man want me if I had so much education?